Julie Menanno
Marriage and family therapist working from attachment theory and emotionally focused therapy. Author of Secure Love and the person behind The Secure Relationship.
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Where they publish
The Secure RelationshipSite Her practice and courses, built on attachment theory and emotionally focused therapy.
Where the couples work is: her practice, her book Secure Love, and the courses that teach the attachment cycle she writes about — anxious protest, avoidant withdrawal, and the repair between them.
Open thesecurerelationship.com
Link verified 3 Sept 2026.
Julie Menanno on LoveNewsletter Occasional essays on attachment styles and what the work on them actually is.
Essays on what an attachment style is and is not — anger in anxious attachment as a threat-detection habit rather than a character flaw, and the grief underneath it.
Open juliemenanno.substack.com
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Beliefs
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Getting angry quickly in an anxiously attached person is a threat-detection habit their nervous system learned, not a character flaw.
When you get angry fast, it usually is not because you are "too much." It is often because your nervous system learned to live on alert.
How Anger Shows Up in Anxious Attachment, and What the Work Is Said 29 Apr 2026
Underneath the anger of anxious attachment is unresolved grief about not having been responded to.
Underneath anger is sadness over all your cumulative experiences in life of not being responded to, past and present. The sadness around powerlessness. Unresolved grief.
How Anger Shows Up in Anxious Attachment, and What the Work Is Said 29 Apr 2026
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