From one piece Bad Feelings 3 beliefs · derekthompson.org
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Envy is usually based on a distorted, delusional picture of another person's life rather than reality.Their words
The good news about envy is that it is very often a delusion.
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Envy is triggered by feeling similar to someone, not simply by the size of the difference between you.Their words
Although it seems to be based on a perceived difference ("he is rich, and I am not"), it is actually triggered by a feeling of similarity ("if he and I are so alike, why is he so much richer?")
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Small disadvantages relative to others hurt more than equivalent small advantages help.Their words
It's unfair, not only materially, but psychologically. The bad we feel about small disadvantages is greater than the good we feel about small advantages.